At the end of your life, if you could pick one thing that you would like to have accomplished, what would that one thing be? Generally people do not answer this question with the superficial. I do not recall anyone ever saying, "I want to have made a lot of money", or "become famous", or "have been the best athlete". Even though their behavior patterns may indicate otherwise, they usually have enough depth to say things like " I want to have been a loving husband", "have had a wonderful family", "have been a great friend", or for the more spiritually minded, to "have made it to heaven". This question is an important one and deserves our attention.